They write from personal experience, and also from a place of passion. Each of the authors lives polyamorous lifestyles and has experienced a wide range of relationship types. The Ethical Slut is written by Dossie Easton and Janet W. I picked up a copy of The Ethical Slut in the hopes that it would give me a better understanding of the different kinds of poly relationships, as well as walking me through some valuable techniques that I could apply to my own relationship. Although polyamory might not be for everyone, I think it’s a very undervalued and misunderstood style of relationship.

I learned loads about my own communication styles and needs during this time.

It was awesome to see partners who were so honest with one another, so willing to give their partners freedom to explore. During my brief foray into the world of poly dating, I felt so impressed with the relationship practices that I saw modeled. However, I am eager to learn more about the gamut of relationships beyond monogamy. I am in a long-term, monogamous relationship and am very happy. I do not consider myself to be polyamorous. However, a few months back I found a copy in my favourite queer bookstore and I took it home to read. Sadly, my relationship ended before I had an opportunity to read this book. When I went looking online for resources to help me feel more equipped, I saw The Ethical Slut recommended over and over. I knew that poly communities existed but I had never myself taking part in that style of relationship. Prior to this, I hadn’t even considered the possibility of poly dating.

I met an awesome couple on a dating site, I was attracted to them both and eager to try new things so I agreed to go out on a date. A few years ago, I found myself in a polyamorous relationship almost by accident.

The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton